Friday, 4 November 2016

I Hate Love Because (Part 1)

Love! Love!! Love!!!
...Baby I love you!
   All this look strange to me that I think only insane people do that. Wow! it's awful, ridiculous, abhorred. I even get pissed up when I hear them say "baby pls don't do this" or "baby pls don't leave me you are my life".
     Their was friend of mine that even get tired of life because the girl he love so much jilted him, when he told me I discourage him to beg but this guy is so insane that he ran back begging, what end the story was complete heart break resulting from emotional strains and stress. This were also story of countless girls who also end up with thesame love scenario but still they ran back begging for them to be accepted by their partner who is at faults. I am very much sure that the statement that say.....

                   " if you want to be happy for a while fall in love but if you want to be happy for ever  don't if try to love at all".
         All this love syndrome disease was catching up with people around me until the day I myself was ill of it.The symptoms were common such as  emotional strain and stress, moody, love-mixed-hate  and so many other symptom not mentioned because it differs in each patients. I now begin to put myself in the shoe of others and I see that all this while we are not different at all.
       Because I found out that we were critics of this thing we call love as in cherishing, caring, adoring people who we're not related with in anyway. It was as if I will never get what I imagine in loving someone, I am very much correct, So now I live in mirage that my concept was so much correct that I should indoctrinate it and teach others my way of not participating at all in love.
   A friend of mine told me something that shock me and wept for him in my heart.
     Friend: my guy, do you know that all the girls I dated in the past left without no reason
     Me: you mean all. How many are you talking about here
    Friend: four 
    Me: my guy God go help oooo. just console yourself because i no know how you dey feel
   Friend: the one wey even pain me well na the  this one.
         This friend of mine keep nagging and talking about what happen and the most funny piece of the story is the nothing cause their breakup. From my friend story i began to realize that most young people kind of love started like blind date. What i mean is going into the relationship without looking out for those things that interest you, i mean the ideal things you will gain from the person involve and how to make this ideal things become reality.
        So i suffered when i met a lady that i think love at first sight but we all know that love at first sight is  no love at all......
 

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